I Don’t Care What Others Say

If you want to win, you must stop listening to the others. Do not let anyone else make life decisions for you. If you try to listen to what everyone says, you will lose control of your own life. So, do not let that happen.


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I Don’t Care What Others Say

EcommerceBuff Radio Episode 5


Audio Transcript

Welcome to another episode of EcommerceBuff Radio.

My name is Oshadee, and today my message to you is, Do Not Listen to The Others.

If you want to win, you must stop listening to the others. Do not let anyone else make life decisions for you. If you try to listen to what everyone says, you will lose control of your own life. So, do not let that happen.

It can be anyone. Take their feedback, but make your own decisions. Only you know what is going on with you. They do not understand the real context of your preferences and goals. Only you know that. So, it is up to you to make your own life decisions.

If you carefully evaluate what others say, they are just giving their opinions, thinking within their own context. So, those opinions would not necessarily fit into what you have to go through.

And, the other thing is that, once you start making your own decisions, you have to take the authority and be responsible for what you do. So, there is a tendency for you to do it better. Because you have to make sure your decisions work. That means, subconsciously you will try your best to win, just because you want to prove that your choices are right.

Otherwise, if you follow someone else’s decisions, you have an excuse to blame someone, if anything goes wrong. So, then you will say things like, I wish I didn’t listen to them. But, guess what, then, it will be too late. It is your life that they are playing with.

There is no point of regretting things.

If you talk to an old person about their life, most of them would say that they are not satisfied with what they have achieved. The main reason for this is, most of the time, people do not make their own decisions. So, they do not grind it out.

So, think rationally, and start making your own decisions. If you have a brain, why would you need someone else to make life decisions for you? The very moment you start controlling your own life, you will feel the grip of your own work. If you decide to quit your job and start a business, think rationally, calculate your risks and make your decision.

One last thing I have to tell is, do not team up with those who are negative and have pessimistic feelings. They will influence these feelings to you and drag you to their level. Always think like you are going to build the next Amazon. Those optimistic and energetic feelings will make you an achiever, and a winner.

Try to team up with the people who have ambitions for their lives. When you are surrounded by such positive minds, you will start thinking in the same way. They will help you to overcome the little bumps you face in your life.

So, dear friends, start building your own life, starting from today.

We will see in another episode of Ecommercebuff radio.

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